Same-sex marriage

             In recent years, more and more people are paying attention on the complex relationship among people. At the same time, same-sex marriage has been a hot topic among a lot of people. From my point of view, I think it would be fine for the people who want to.

             First, some people born like the way they do not want to be but they have to face it. People can not avoid their naturally. As other people around, what we can do is just respect them. Lady Gaga have a song which named < born this way> is about this kind of issue. No matter what kind of people you are, no matter what special quality you have, you can be a super star and that is the way you born.

             Second, as candidate require, during that time, always all the candidates support same-sex marriage since their needs. The District of Columbia and 47 states have anti-hate crime laws, however only 24 states and the District of Columbia include sexual orientation in their legislation. Present candidate  have to support it because of there is a big number of citizens like that. Present candidate just need more people support himself to be the present. On the other hand, as the present support same-sex marriage, more and more people regard it as a normal stuff as well.

            Third, it is not easy to stop such a lot of people. Now days, it is not hard to find a gay around the campus. For example, couple of people who is my friend are willing to marry a same-sex person. While gay couples are seen on TV shows more often than in the past , affection between the two is restricted to holding hands, playing with one another’s neck scarves and sharing meaningful looks. This wouldn’t be odd if heterosexual couples were not shown kissing on a regular basis. Same- sex marriage has become a new kinds of relationship for this generation. Even some people act as a person like that only follow the " fashion".

            Therefore, since there are too many reasons that we can not stop it, from my point of view, support it for the person who naturally born like that, however, if you are not born like that way, to be normal to marry a different-sex person is better.

My goal

             Time is flying, before I can remember, my youth has almost finished. Looking at the way to my future, there 's so many choices and mysteries. However, no matter what kind of  destiny I have, I will try to achieve my own goal and be my own boss. As a result, I want to be independent and have a good working career.
             First, being independent is an effective way to motivate myself to study. As I am a student right now, anyway study is the most important thing for me. Actually, there are a lot of friends around me who don't know the reason why they need to study. If a person just follow parents' step doing what they want to, of course there would have no motivation and make no sense. So I tell myself that my goal is to be a success person through education and knowledge but not parents.
             Second, to be independent and have a job to do is necessary for a lady. When it was old time in my country, people thought ladies should be a housewife, for instance, they could not have their own social network and friends, all they need to do was take care of  the house and husband, babies. From my point of view, even though it is new century now, there are still a lot of families like that. However, as a lady, I don't want to be one of them, I don't want to lose my own life to make myself out of the society. What' s more? After long time study at home, lady will lose their glamour as a woman and turn to a mom. All in all, my goal will access to balance family relationship and life enrichment.
             Third, by the time working and doing everything myself. I also get a benefit which is stimulate my brain. As I opened my horizon, when something happened, I won't be flurry, pretty and timid. Without vulnerability, I will estimate the advantage and disadvantage, analyze the problem instead of make a decision by intuition.
             There were no guarantee for everyone to be success. In my case, I will exclude all the bumps on my way and keep on working hard, then it will not the inevitable to be success. Therefore, to be independent, work in a stable way, enjoy my life are the goals what I will try to work out in 10 years.